Dating emotionally unavailable girl
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Someone who is EU (emotionally unavailable) may still desire all the attractions of a casual or even committed relationship, however, they will not be willing or capable of connecting emotionally.Basically, being emotionally unavailable means that the person is not interested in love or exchanging emotions on a deeper level.
An EU will very likely be unwilling to commit; not just to the emotional side, they will unlikely commit to any other aspect of the relationship either.
They will be very reluctant to move the relationship on to the next level, even if it is just in the very beginning stages.
Simplified, an EU will not be in a position to allow themselves to fall in love and they will struggle to “show up” and be accountable in the relationship.
Despite all of the above, a relationship with an EU can still be amazing—as long as both people in the relationship are not looking for anything serious.
The good thing about someone who is EU is that very often they will be aware of this, and make it very clear from the outset.
There will often be deeper underlying issues such as trust or fear that will be preventing them from moving closer to the relationship.
It may just be that the person is at a stage where they are not ready for anything serious and want to play the field for a while and be involved in something light-hearted.
If this is the case and they make their agenda clear to the other person, the EU person cannot be held responsible if heart-break ensues when the one wanting a relationship realises they meant what they said.
And if they don’t speak it verbally, their actions will do the talking.
The trouble often happens when one person sees that as a challenge, and they think they can be the one who can change their mind and charm them into a deeper relationship.
All too often the signs are all there, but people choose to ignore them, turning a blind-eye and thinking that the person is just playing hard-to-get and can be easily swayed.
Here is a tip: If someone is playing hard to get—it’s usually because they are hard to get.